FAQ

  • How soon can we get started? May I see you today?

    Some of us are planners; some prefer wild spontaneity. I understand you may be considering reaching out to me for awhile, or perhaps searching for a companion “available now”. You are welcome to ask if and when i’m available, any time but please know I try to keep up but it may take a couple minutes, hours, or days to respond. If you have a time-sensitive request, include specifics in a message, after sending your Screening and Date Request.

  • What is your availability like?

    I’ve recently completed a medical graduate school program and mostly work from home in clinical research. What this means for you is that my availability fluctuates somewhat depending on the week. Availability on specific days or timeframes is flexible, so just ask! I prefer to meet between 12 noon - 10 pm. No early mornings.

  • Where is your incall located?

    We will spend time together at a 4 or 5-star hotel— safest and most secure for both of us. My location changes depending on the day or week, from the north/northwest suburbs, to the city of Chicago. If planned at least a day in advance (preferably longer), I can reserve a space for us to share if you don’t have one. Do not assume I live in a hotel or have an incall ready to go 24/7. I don’t.

  • How far in advance may I schedule with you?

    I’m always happy to receive an enthusiastic date request. Due to my ever changing schedule I may not be able to guarantee booking a date with me earlier than 6 months. The exception would be travel bookings or FMTY (more on this later). Please ask and we’ll discuss possibilities.

  • What is your deposit policy?

    As soon as I complete your screening and we agree our schedules and proclivities are a match, I ask you please send at least a 20% deposit to guarantee a desired date and time. If you do not send a deposit, our time together has not been secured.

    I accept Venmo, CashApp, Zelle, ApplePay, bitcoin, or a gift card (Amazon, Uber, etc.) if arranged. The deposit amount is of course deducted from the total you give on our date. Tips are never expected, always welcome.

    Deposits are refunded in the rare event I must cancel and nonrefundable if you must cancel.

  • What are your incall and travel fees?

    If you require an incall rather than me coming to you, please include a $100 incall fee, split the cost, or cover the room charge. This helps me provide a lovely, safe space in your desired location and offset the rising cost of hotel accommodations.

    If you require an outcall (I come to your hotel or residence), please offer to pay for my Uber both ways. This cost can be sent in advance or added to the final gift. I’m happy to travel up to one hour each way from my location before our planned date. We’ll figure it out.

  • What is your cancellation policy?

    I try to be as accommodating as possible; if your plans change, it is best to let me know immediately and reschedule our date within 30 days. Your deposit will be applied to a date within 30 days and forfeited if not rescheduled within 30 days. Please send at least a $100 cancellation fee to help offset my inconvenience and loss of time.

    Thank you!

  • How do you prefer donation methods & delivery?

    Please fulfill the remainder of your donation before or at the very start of our date.

    Cash donations should be discreetly presented in an envelope, card, gift, bag, book, etc. Any e-payment (with my prior approval) will also be completed at the start of our date, and we can focus on each other.

    If using an app, please arrive with more than one prepared in case of sending limitations for new payees or other issues.

    From most to least preferred: Cash>>> CashApp> ApplePay > Venmo> Zelle > E-gift cards> Bitcoin> Other? Any method of donation other than cash must be agreed upon in advance.

  • Do you consider "fly-me-to-you" dates?

    Absolutely! It all begins with you sending me an introduction. I cherish destination dates and trips beyond compare! My minimum package offered for travel dates includes a 3-4 hour date at $2,500 + flights and lodging as desired.

    Plans can be tailored to include overnights, multiple days together, or only some days/nights as your companion while you are busy working or traveling. You’ll see how simple I make planning. I can stay by your side or be content entertaining myself while you do your thing. I am super laid-back and a lovely travel partner, if I may say so myself.

  • Do you offer tour sponsporships?

    Sponsoring a tour is similar to a FMTY but instead of committing to a 3-4 hour date, you could plan less time together (with opportunity to extend or revisit) and only cover the cost of my round-trip airfare. This can only work if I’m interested in visiting your city for longer than 2-3 days. Email me for more details.

  • I’m ready! How do I get started?

    I’m excited already! Know that any communication is strictly confidential and is only always between me and you— no assistants or agencies. Please send an introduction using one of the following and send a recent photo of yourself by email/text:

    Encrypted booking form

    Preferred, as this serves as your official date request and screening. You do not need to have a finalized date and time decided to submit your request. If not sure, please send date/time ranges or your general availability to meet.

    Email ellelovexox@proton.me with the same exact details outlined on my booking form, plus your photo. This allows me to verify you are the person you say you are and demonstrates trust. You’re welcome to copy and paste the text version below and send by email or text:

    Full Name:

    Home City:

    Cell Number:

    Age:

    Profession/Company:

    Website if available:

    Social media or board handles:

    Incall/Outcall/Either?:

    City, State for Meet:

    Ideal Date (s) and Times:

    Date Duration:

    + Send a current photo of yourself

    Reach out by email, text, WhatsApp, or Signal.

  • Will you serve as a reference to future providers for me?

    Of course I will! Your potential new friend will get a confirmation and referral as soon as I get the request, as long as we have met in the past 6 months. Please shoot me a quick message to let me know who is contacting me on your behalf.

    Please do not ever feel shy about asking me to provide a referral for you. I want you to be happy and well taken care of, always. I also want my ladies to be safe and get to enjoy meeting you! I do not require provider references in my screening but if you’d like to provide 1-2, I will check with them. Please ask her permission before giving her contact info.

  • Do you accept reviews? Where can I read your reviews?

    I’m floored by outstanding feedback I’ve received from gentlemen I’ve met. I am at the point in my time as a companion where I no longer rely on review sites to gain trust as a reputable provider. But if you’re interested have at it and read up or share a tale of our time together at The Erotic Review: TER ID 367907. Please remember to ask me before submitting a review, and I prefer if you allow me to review it for discretion. In return, I can whitelist you on TER.

    My Private Delights account is now de-listed but I shared dozens of genuine, previously written testimonials here on my website, so check the Reviews section if interested.

    Do not share any details of our time together anywhere else on the internet—this includes client message boards, forums, Reddit, or twitter. As of today (April 2025) I am still listed on TER and accepting reviews from confirmed, real visits only.

  • What are some of your interests, passions, date ideas?

    I could list so many parts of life I adore. I love… travel, champagne and wine, dining (finest dining to neighborhood joints! No dietary restrictions but I do not drink hard liquor), spas, kayaking, photography, art museums, comedy shows, karaoke, theater/Broadway, shopping, yoga, relaxing with a mimosa by the pool or at the beach, urban exploration… on and on!

    I’m a nerd at heart. I’m into molecular genetics, immunology, and I’m a genuine, certified 🍆 worshipper. Enquire within.

  • What are your proportions? Are you enhanced?

    Ht: 5’4″ • Wt: 135 lb • Hair: Red-brown/Auburn. Super long • Eyes: Almond-shaped, Brown, ”Bedroom eyes”

    Dress: 6-8 • Bra: 34C • Panty/Garter: Med • Shoe: 6.5-7 (37 EU)

    Body: All-natural, no enhancements. Hourglass. Tiny waist. Perky tits. Bouncy, round super booty. 34″ x 28″ x 38″. Soft, fair-skinned, always super fresh with a hint of Chanel or Byredo scents. Impeccable hygiene and self-care are not negotiable for me or my dates.

    As Jessica Rabbit said, “I’m not really bad. I’m just drawn that way”. Most importantly, I feel great in my own skin! I love lingerie, getting dressed up only to be unwrapped like a present. I cherish moments of mutual admiration. Let's get to know each other!

  • What turns you on?

    I am an intimacy chameleon. I genuinely love whatever I do once I set out to do it. Anything from sensual massage to flirting over drinks, “vanilla” GFE to fetish-friendly– all types at once, in between, and outside the box! If I could decide, I’d indulge in the chance to get to know each other with extended time, but understand that is not always on the agenda.

    Our session could be as deeply sensual or as quick and casual as you desire– what I find intriguing is that I’m likely to love what we do together regardless. I always make sure I have fun or I wouldn’t be doing this at all!